“Tum chahte ho main 28 saal ko 5-6 maheene mein bhula dun?” Internet grieves as Sanniya loses medical ambitions to Salman’s demands in Doctor Bahu

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Like a gush of wind, pregnancy and marriage take over the ambitious Sanniya (Kubra Khan), as she chooses the relationships she deems precious over herself. The haunting timelapse in Doctor Bahu has become a mirror to society, where women are expected to give up on themselves to save their relationships. While Salman (Shuja Asad) continues to ace in his career, Sanniya’s career becomes an ornament on the shelf as she cares for her growing family. With glimpses of her past and the hope to revive herself after delivering her baby, Sanniya moves forward.

Her fear considered her ungratefulness; she lives the reality of generations of women who have been sacrificing themselves to salvage relationships for their future. Throughout the episodes, it shows how her mother has suffered the same fate, yet the cycle of weighing women down with responsibilities and expectations continues through the generations. The silence that lingers between Salman and Sanniya has taken over the healthy communication that had been the core of their relationship. Her loss of identity is dismissed as her anger and rage, while her acceptance of her new life is considered mandatory.

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Where netizens have been hailing Sanniya and Salman’s dynamic for their communication, their hearts ache with Sanniya’s downfall and their relationship gradually falling apart. While celebrations are for the baby, the internet mourns how Sanniya’s existence has been reduced to catering to her husband’s needs and family. Doctor Bahu viewers laud the drama serial for the rightful portrayal of a woman stripped of her career; appreciating Sanniya’s grieving her career, an X user posted:

A teary-eyed viewer criticised how men in our society are blindfolded, unable to see the pain women go through. They posted:

Hurt over the plight of women, another netizen added:

While Doctor Bahu left the audience in tears this weekend, netizens applaud the realistic portrayal of women and their defeat to protect relationships. Taking it to X, a user commented:

Jotting down how Sanniya was gradually moved to give up her career, despite the promises made at the time of the wedding and later, a user stated:

In the hope of seeing a progressive take on the Doctor Bahu twist, a netizen added: