“Zamana nhi badla, logon ko ab bhi susral se apni betiyon ke janaze hi chahiyein”: Doctor Bahu hailed as domestic expectations replace professional ambitions

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As Doctor Bahu progresses, the theme of systemic erasure of a woman’s professional identity after marriage deepens. Staying true to the core, it peels another layer of how professional women are married into families who immediately clip their wings once the wedding festivities conclude. Where Sania (Kubra Khan) is expected to go for a honeymoon over her FCPS exams reveals the cold reality of domestic servitude, where a medical degree is treated more like a decorative certificate than a license to save lives.

Where Salman (Shuja Asad) is supportive of his wife, the weight of responsibilities toward the in-laws grows for Sania, with her mother pushing her to prioritize their needs over her career and her ailing aunt. Her desire to remain financially independent is also looked down upon by her father-in-law, Dr. Shahnawaz, the patriarch. Her desire for financial independence is considered unnecessary, as she now belongs to an affluent family. Her career and education are weighed by a cup of coffee, as all she is expected to do is serve hot cups of coffee.

In addition to that, her own family, her mother, is also preaching to give up on her dreams with the classic ‘all will be well’ ideology. Speaking about her own experience, her mother states that it is the same cycle that has been going on for generations. She did it; hence, Sania must do the same to fit in and make things work in her marriage. While things seem stable between the couple, the external elements are questionable.

The powerful sequences in Doctor Bahu struck a chord with the audience, who found it close to reality, as women are generally expected to give up everything to please their in-laws. Stating how painfully her own family enables her torture, a user posted on X. They said:

Appreciating the ease while delivering topics of the deep-rooted patriarchy, a netizen posted:

— SophiaQ (@SophiaAQ) April 11, 2026

Highlighting the hypocrisy of the doctor household, a user added: