‘Divorce is not a shame. It’s a win’: Instagram influencer wins internet by throwing divorce party for mother

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An Instagram influencer Feeya has gotten praises from the internet after she posted a reel where along with the rest of her siblings, they threw a divorce party for her mother.

Feeya, whose Instagram account is haw.hayee.feeya, posted pictures on Mothers Day where she posted a bunch of pictures of the party the siblings had thrown for the mother. In the caption, she had written that no mother should be forced to endure domestic violence in order to keep her family together.

“It’s mothers day today so I really wanted to wish her this way. Ending this relationship was a win for all of us. No one in the world deserves pointing guns. No one deserves domestic violence. No one deserves a relation which doesn’t bring peace. Yes I’m proud of her. Yes She is my hero. Ending a toxic relationship of 30 years is an absolute win, no one absolutely no one in our house is sad.”

 

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In the comments section, users praised Feeya and her siblings for being the strong support their mother needed.

“Bravo she’s a gem for taking a stand for her children Ma Sha Allah and ending 30 years of trauma stay strong aunty,” a user commented.

“It’s so brave of her, ending a relationship after giving it 30 years needs a lot of strength, seperation is much much better than that toxic relationship. More power to her and many more like her fighting with this toxicity.”

One user made a heart breaking revelation about how she lost her mother to domestic violence, but was happy that women today were not going to let a toxic relationship destroy their lives.

“So happy for her my mother ended up dead due to toxic relationship and I will always regret that why couldn’t she live for herself,” wrote a user

Feeya shared another reel where along with the rest of her siblings, they took their mother shopping and bought her expensive gifts.

“We wanted to surprise our mother for her new single life. Divorce is not a shame, it’s a win,” the post on the reel read.

 

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Feeya then shared another reel to address the critics who were shaming the family for choosing to celebrate her mother’s divorce.

“Before you comment about my mother’s iddat and divorce. I want to address this issue right here, till yesterday I thought if not speaking about it, but some comments were quite disturbing which made me feel like I should address this thing.

He abounded her 10 years back, they had no contact. Guns pointing, abusive language, threats of murder and what not? As a daughter I do respect him but if we talk about humanity, no one is allowed to treat a woman like a slave. This is my respect for him that I didn’t name him anywhere. This is my respect for him that I didn’t tell the world the whole story and the impact it had on my mind. I respect him still but no woman should go through what my mother went through. Those 10 years were already her iddat period.”

 

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Here’s to strong women, and their strong daughters who are changing the narrative by refusing to stay in toxic marriages. We are whole heartedly standing with this trend and hope that more women come to realise that there is no point of staying in a toxic marriage.